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I have same problem i am also 5.3. for this I have lost everything job interview, my only female friend also she is by best friend. self confidence everything

I am shortest in my entire community. from last 3 week i just locked myself in my house & I promise myself if i not gain extra 3 inch i never unlocked my self 

and after 3 inch i will try another 3 inch then i will be happiest man in this world

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Quote from: KrP1 on July 19, 2018, 06:06:12 PM1,60m ----- no sxxual life , except if you pay for it.

1,65m ----- invisible to 98% of women , you simply dont pass the height cut off.

1,70m ----- atractive to some women depending in your face / body aesthetics (maybe 30%), but your height is a negative point , some women will reject you for that.

1,75m----- cut off for most women , you could be atractive to a good % of them ( maybe 70%)  depending on your face / body.  For 30% of girls you dont pass the height requeriment.

1,80m ------ height is not a negative point in you , maybe a positive . could be atractive to 95% of women depending in your face /body.

+1

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Quote from: YellowSpike on July 19, 2018, 08:12:59 PMI think this is virtually spot on. Every inch/cm between 5'6" and 5'9" (168 to 175) is very crucial.

I think anything below 5'7" (170) is generally when things get really bad. I'm now 5'8" (173) after surgery and have no problems now getting attractive women. But...I'm also in great shape, make well over 100K and have great facial aesthetics (to the point where gay men always hit on me). So...maybe 5'8" wouldn't seem as good without these things.

I can tell you at 5'5" (166), I still did get women/dates/hookups, but it was definitely harder and I was definitely called short.

What field do you work in?

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Quote from: KrP1 on July 19, 2018, 06:06:12 PM1,60m ----- no sxxual life , except if you pay for it.

1,65m ----- invisible to 98% of women , you simply dont pass the height cut off.

1,70m ----- atractive to some women depending in your face / body aesthetics (maybe 30%), but your height is a negative point , some women will reject you for that.

1,75m----- cut off for most women , you could be atractive to a good % of them ( maybe 70%)  depending on your face / body.  For 30% of girls you dont pass the height requeriment.

1,80m ------ height is not a negative point in you , maybe a positive . could be atractive to 95% of women depending in your face /body.
true!

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Look guys, being short is the same as being ugly for a girl. That's how they view it. If you bulk up it doesn't matter you are still considered ugly to women.

That is why I am so bitter about being short. My parents never told me that height and sexual dimorphism is what matters to women. If they told me that from a young age then I would have been very healthy and ate perfectly.

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This thread was an interesting read. A lot of topics going on. I'm 168 and I can say that makes you invisible to a large portion of people in the dating world. It's tall enough though that if you find a girl that doesn't care about height she won't even factor it into acount. Like you won't lose atractivenes points in her eyes. Some woman prefer it even. Althoug it makes dating harder it can still be done. It does bother me though that there are woman judging me on this thing I can't control, but finding the right girl isn't really hindered at all, so it's fine.

The OP mentioned proportions. I don't know if this makes me lucky or not, since it's the main reason I want LL, but I have kind of a normally proportioned body, a slightly above average sized Johnson, but short tibias. I find my proportions even out with insoles in. I'd love to have that extra tibia length and look how I picture myself.

Something that does really get to me is just the worlds attitude towards short men. People not taking you seriously, being the butt of jokes in movies and tv, and never having the superhero or hero in a movie be your size. To me 173-174.5 is the perfect size for me. Can get comfortable in most spaces, not towering over people, easily fit under showers, stuff like that and still a normal member of society.

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Quote from: MrHandsome on July 20, 2018, 09:42:53 PMLook guys, being short is the same as being ugly for a girl. That's how they view it. If you bulk up it doesn't matter you are still considered ugly to women.

That is why I am so bitter about being short. My parents never told me that height and sxxual dimorphism is what matters to women. If they told me that from a young age then I would have been very healthy and ate perfectly.

Look, you're just the biggest moron this forum has to offer. People know this. Don't believe they won't notice.

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Quote from: MrHandsome on July 20, 2018, 09:42:53 PMLook guys, being short is the same as being ugly for a girl. That's how they view it. If you bulk up it doesn't matter you are still considered ugly to women.

That is why I am so bitter about being short. My parents never told me that height and sxxual dimorphism is what matters to women. If they told me that from a young age then I would have been very healthy and ate perfectly.

Sorry to break that for you but i can see definitely that height aint the major problem lol

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It's honestly pathetic that it seems a good amount of you are going to do/have done/want CLL for women. That's real beta behavior and being a little taller won't change that, you still won't be a chick magnet after CLL. The same crap goes on in old forums, go to a hair transplant forum and they'll tell you without a Norwood 1-2 you're not getting laid period, for example. Knowing how to communicate will take you further in life than a few inches added to your stature. How about you all work on taking care of yourselves, like hygiene, grooming, image [how you dress/fashion], etc. in the mean time, because no decent women is going to want a dirty "tall" lame with dragon breathe who don't know how to dress properly talking to her, never mind all the mental issues and insecurities some of you on this forum have. Being tall isn't everything and some of you need to get that through your heads.

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Quote from: edwardv6 on July 21, 2018, 08:22:01 PMIt's honestly pathetic that it seems a good amount of you are going to do/have done/want CLL for women. That's real beta behavior and being a little taller won't change that, you still won't be a chick magnet after CLL. The same crap goes on in old forums, go to a hair transplant forum and they'll tell you without a Norwood 1-2 you're not getting laid period, for example. Knowing how to communicate will take you further in life than a few inches added to your stature. How about you all work on taking care of yourselves, like hygiene, grooming, image [how you dress/fashion], etc. in the mean time, because no decent women is going to want a dirty "tall" lame with dragon breathe who don't know how to dress properly talking to her, never mind all the mental issues and insecurities some of you on this forum have. Being tall isn't everything and some of you need to get that through your heads.

agree

except the concept of alpha and beta behavior, humans are  more complex, than gorillas and wolves, is bs