Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMCalm down that sounds much like a teenage angst rant.
Humans are individually different. Yes, I agree that the vast majority of humans are pretty damn similar to gorillas in a zoo going through their everyday lives. However, there are those who are further down the rabbit hole of intellectualism. You can choose which people you surround yourself with. Do you really want those shallow idiots who judge you by unchangeable traits?
Actually, you can’t choose who you surround yourself with. You can pick your own friends, but you can’t avoid the average person all the time. You don’t get to pick your classmates or your bullies at school and you don’t always get to pick your boss or coworkers at work. You don’t always get to pick your business partners, clients, and vendors either. You can pick your own girlfriend but you can’t pick who her friends are. You’ll have to interact with people who don’t share the same values, views, and morals with you no matter who you are. If you could avoid all of them completely, then you wouldn’t need to get LL. You could just surround yourself with people who don’t view additional height as a positive attribute and forget about the whole thing.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMAnd don't get started on brain stuff, you know what's the one special brain anatomy thing for humans? The enlarged growth of the parieto-temporal lobe. It actually grows over the insula in humans. you can see this type of evolution in other grand apes but in humans it's the most distinctive. What comes with this? Advanced speech, communication, and sociology (primarily). Thus, one can argue that for us the complexity of communication is far more important in sxxuality too.
That’s great, but you’ll never get a chance to open your mouth and exhibit any of those qualities if she writes you off instantly because of your height.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMSee, this sounds like a teen talking about "the meaning of life in a biological way is just fking
". The truth is, well yes, but actually no. Humans are supposed to be K-type reproductive species, which means their meaning of life is actually to RAISE their offspring, because it favors quality over quantity. That's also the best thesis as of now for the reason for homosxxuality (homosxxuals are determined to "help raise relative's offspring").
I am in no way attempting to define the meaning of life, but what I can do is tell you that those who care more about the quality of their offspring will be outbred by those who care more about the quantity of their offspring in the long run. Natural selection hardly applies to humans on an individual level nowadays. If you don’t raise your own kids, the taxpayer will.
Note that I’m not condoning this behavior nor would I partake, I’m just pointing out from a philosophical standpoint that what you deem to be meaningful is not the same to everyone.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMI think you should invest your money to feel better about yourself, gain more self worth, self esteem, in public situations or when under people. That will absolutely help you find a partner. and if you are below X type of percentile (probably 5'5 and below?), I agree that a really low height makes it HARD to find a partner so I see that this is a motivation of course.
Again, it’s not impossible for a man to find a partner no matter what his height is, and for most it's not even that hard. Almost everyone ends up dating at least a few people over the course of their lives. How difficult it is to find a partner that you like depends on how picky you are relative to what you bring to the table. If you are too picky then you either have to settle or need to do something about your height (or other attributes that could be improved.) I'm very picky, which is why I felt like I needed LL to improve my odds.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMSee, I agree with the partner thing though, the first impression of looks is important, but it is indeed subjective!!! never forget that. If you see someone, you will always have them unconsciously "scanned" if they are "your type" or not. This however can vary so much. For example, probably bc of my history of height-related mental illness, I would want a girl who is tall (6ft and above ideally, not that uncommon in my country btw). All of my friends say though that this would be a "red flag" for them. Most men want small or average girl, max the same height as them. Some of my friends even have a kink for "petite" girls. But a taller girlfriend? No way! For most of them at least, but for me it would be good. Even if I'd lengthen to 6'7 I'd prefer girls who are 6'7 and above lol. Maybe it's a fetish thing.
But see, it can vary and not all beauty norms are 100% true. Especially things like tan (which I absolutely dislike, pale is better
) or hairstyle etc,. but ironically, the universally important thing is height, maybe it represents a genome that was important in evolution, who knows.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but statistically some people are more attractive than others. If 50% of people find person A attractive and 95% of people find person B attractive, by definition person B is much more attractive than person A, but that doesn’t mean person A doesn’t have any prospects and it doesn't mean that everyone would find person B more attractive than person A. I personally like the type of girls that a large number of men would find attractive (so conventionally attractive ones) so I got LL to improve my chances in the competitive pool, because I want every edge that I can get when competition is fierce.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMBut maybe you are right and more people are only in for the sxxual aspects of LL, I am not though I do this for myself, not for anyone else, not to find a girlfriend or to be more attractive to girls (I couldn't stand when many girls would try to sxxually approach me anyways ugh. Just want a good one and be happy that's it).
What does it even mean to “do this for yourself?” I mean technically I did it for myself too. After all, I’m the one who ultimately benefits from getting it done. I think it’s actually pretty difficult to do this surgery purely for other people based on the nature of the surgery. Even if you’re not interested in dating, getting the surgery would still benefit you should you want to date. Even if you’re not interested in what other people think about you, you still benefit from the social acceptance of being taller.
I don’t just want to settle for a “good” one; if I was okay with that then I would have gotten married a long time ago and I would never do something as extreme as LL because it’s not difficult to find a decent girl and live happily ever after. I’m greedy as hell and I want the best possible female available to me. Of course, there’s some luck involved, but the idea behind getting LL is to increase my odds. Based on my personal experiences, height is what I was lacking the most. I’ll have to continue going through a lot of women to find the right one, but hey, life’s not perfect.
If you have lots of women gunning for you, then why do you need the surgery? Surely at least one must be attractive in your eyes.
Quote from: RealLostSoul on March 23, 2021, 10:40:51 PMoh and I forgot, about the moral dilemma. Morality is what advances in a progressing civilization. See how much different the world is now in comparison to medieval times. This is because collective morality is progressing in a sentient species. without any morale, a human-like species would destroy itself (which might eventually turn around and happen though). only very different species like a borg-like hive mind could progress and work. However, this just might be a theory of mine. And advanced humans judge no one by their looks anymore, eg. see how you would never hate a friend or family member because of their "lower than average" looks, right?. (we can't unchanged our inner program of mating preference though, you are right about that)
I wouldn’t be surprised at all if humanity destroys itself. Might as well enjoy your time on Earth living to your fullest potential.