okay perhaps I didn't explain the situation very well, don't get me wrong we actually hooked up a few times and at first, she gave me hints like "I thought you were taller but it's okay" (we met through a dating app). She also said I had lied about my height, which I never did, saying I am 5'6, not 5'9 (wtf). When this actually happened was during our first date and she was wearing some heels, I think she was standing at 5'10 as I was just looking up a tiny bit. Things escalated and I wanted something more but she cut me loose claiming she couldn't get over my height. She also said I'm a great kisser, that I'm good in bed but she wants someone taller. This really pissed me off. Obviously, I went no contact ever since despite her several attempts to revive our "friendship". I just cannot get over the fact she doesn't want the same I want and indeed it is my height the main issue. She also said I'm really good looking, mature especially for my age etc. She has also laughed at how my hands are small for a man (they are but I guess they're proportional to my height), it's fking embarrassing.
About lying about my height, cmon guys I'm in a website where people are frustrated with their stature, including me, and see this as an escape where we all can blow off some steam about it, why would I lie about it? I am 174cm in the morning and 172cm in the evening but I always stand at 175cm wearing shoes. The reason I posted this was to vent and to express how bitter and frustrated I am with people always perceiving me as less of a man because of a few inches.
