Quote from: MrHandsome on October 14, 2017, 08:13:18 PMHow do you know I am an incel? I just want hot women.
Thank fk hot women doesn't want you lol
Quote from: Zeo on October 14, 2017, 05:14:00 PMYou at your original height (168 cm?)- I can live fully/feel happy when I get to (your current height) through LL
You at your current height- I can live life to the max when I get to (your height after the next LL)
You at your height after 2 LL's- I'll be fully happy and complete after (i get that next promotion, get married, become financially independant, whatever your goals are etc etc)
You realize the goal post always gets moved right? You get to your goal and the rush of victory is momentary. Then it's on to the next thing. Not judging you for it. It's literally human nature. Cavemen didn't invent fire and say, "Wow this is amazing I won't need anything else ever again". They wanted more, and that's how we ended up making skyscrapers and robots. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't chase your goals to the grave and make that your condition for happiness.
The point is not to prolong your happiness for an event in the future, whether it's LL, graduating college, finding a soulmate etc, because there will always be the future. There's always something you can improve on. Meaning if you life your life for the future, you wont ever really let yourself live life fully.
This is honestly why I get so peeved about all of these threads. It's because if you relay on external factors for happiness whether it's women or money or height, you will never be truly happy. Trust me I'm still not able to fully practice this, but this is something I think we should be leaning towards.
This isnt really about you, i think you've probably have not held back much after you got LL. This is for the people who have years to go to save and dont allow themselves to live fully at their original height. This is why i always same the same damn thing, dont relay on LL to make you happy. I remember someone commenting something about if your a loser before LL then you'll be a loser afterwards, fix whatever issues you have now, so that when you get LL you can go on to live a full life.
I know your not extreme like a lot of people posting but this forum has become very toxic lately and its pretty sickening.
No Zeo, the goal is not moved.
I live a good life in all apsects but my height limits me to live at max.
When I am at a club and I really like a girl who is 5-6 cm taller than me (with shoes on of course) and I don't speak to her because I am not taller than her (even if she wear stilts), I can't consider myself completely ok. And yes, I could speak to her but at 99% the chances are that I'll get rejected because women don't like shorter than them men.
Wouldn't I get rejected if I was a solid 5.11? Maybe yes but not for my height. And still my chances would have been way more that 1-2% I have now.
And this is a small example why you can't live at your full potential when you are not tall or at least taller than average.
I am not crazy nor I always find somenthing to not be ok with myself. I have a high self esteem because I tried hard with my body, my style and my manners and the ONLY thing that I am not ok with myself is my height. And this is not in my mind, men at my height (5.8-9) still face problems with their height, not heightism like short men but still they are out of many women requirements.
So my second LL will be the last thing I'll do and I'll consider myself done with all this bs as I'd be more than average in all aspects. And that's completely ok for me, I don't want to be super tall or have an adones like face or the muscles of Scott Steiner to be ok with myself, I just want to not be beyond average in anything and I could be there only when I hit anything more than 5.10,5.
Quote from: YourSpaceBoyfriend on October 14, 2017, 09:38:02 PMThank fk hot women doesn't want you lol
You're on s leg lengthening forum and then you say that height doesn't matter. People these days smh.
Quote from: MrHandsome on October 15, 2017, 02:26:18 AMYou're on s leg lengthening forum and then you say that height doesn't matter. People these days smh.
No one on this forum says height doesn't matter, it's just that some people disagree with each other on how important height is.
Quote from: google42 on October 15, 2017, 03:21:26 AMNo one on this forum says height doesn't matter, it's just that some people disagree with each other on how important height is.
That quote should be highlighted on the front of these forums.
Quote from: google42 on October 15, 2017, 03:21:26 AMNo one on this forum says height doesn't matter, it's just that some people disagree with each other on how important height is.
If someone is thinking to break his bones by doing LL and get in so many risks but doesn't believe that height is very important (if not the first trait in a man's appearance as I believe, the second), then he is the real lunatic.
Quote from: Body Builder on October 15, 2017, 11:44:46 AMIf someone is thinking to break his bones by doing LL and get in so many risks but doesn't believe that height is very important (if not the first trait in a man's appearance as I believe, the second), then he is the real lunatic.
Depends on where the importance is. One might think that it's not extremely important for relationships with women, but more important for being respected by other men. For me it's mostly that I'm terrified of having stunted my growth a bit (a little like OP) and wanting to eliminate that effect. And I don't like how I look when I mingle with huge crowds of people. Women are not my priority. So the motives are different and individual.
The experience was similar for me. It had nothing to do with women at all or with perspective careers, even though I acknowledge it will slightly help me in those areas. I did it because of how my height made me feel. It made me feel un-masculine and weak, and struggle to make that transition from boy to man because I never felt my body allowed me to. In a sense I guess thats how I knew it was the right decision, since I was purely doing it for myself.
Quote from: IwannaBeTaller on October 15, 2017, 02:37:33 PMDepends on where the importance is. One might think that it's not extremely important for relationships with women, but more important for being respected by other men. For me it's mostly that I'm terrified of having stunted my growth a bit (a little like OP) and wanting to eliminate that effect. And I don't like how I look when I mingle with huge crowds of people. Women are not my priority. So the motives are different and individual.
Still the importance of height is really big. Indepedently of what meaning has for every specific person (women, respect, career etc).
Quote from: Body Builder on October 15, 2017, 05:14:47 PMStill the importance of height is really big.
That's where opinions differ - someone who thinks it's not important will not be on an LL forum.
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