If GF pissed you did LL, then you do it again, what should you say to her?

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What would you say to her if your goal was to stay with her?

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"My old height is only 2 inches less, chill"

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Haha she's scared because you're tapping into a larger market. Get her to do LL with you (couple goals   ). Jokes aside lmao. Imagine she got a face or boob job (the equivalent here imo). Would you feel some type of way / what would you want her to say after getting it? You probably know your relationship better than anyone here

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I would question if she is the right one. A person who loves you would either be worried for your health/outcome or happy for you.

What you describe fits none of that, my 2 cents.

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Since you have got a gf, I wonder why you are still considering LL. If you are doubting her true love just bc you are short then that's surely the reason why she pissed off.
Was there any signal of her willing to cheat on u? Was the relationship not good? Is she too perfect?

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Tell her all the truth, including heigt neurosis,that you are not perfect , still without 100% self esteem  and say her you love her (if it's true).
Finish all your headaches wth the "sincerity" love proof and check also their reaction. If she loves you she may still doesn't agree but will understand and, who knows, even
support you.
Choose what makes you suffer the least and go ahead, don't look back!

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Quote from: zaozari on October 27, 2021, 01:11:53 PMTell her all the truth, including heigt neurosis,that you are not perfect , still without 100% self esteem  and say her you love her (if it's true).
Finish all your headaches wth the "sincerity" love proof and check also their reaction. If she loves you she may still doesn't agree but will understand and, who knows, even
support you.
Choose what makes you suffer the least and go ahead, don't look back!

Never do this.

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Tell her why you have to do this and if she cant support you she's not the one for you. I had the same issue. She kept saying i wont look normal, she likes my natural size, doesn't want to be with someone tall, even threatened me that she would get a butt reduction if i keep planning to do this lol, but at the end of the day she got on board with it cause i made sure she got how important this was for me to do and all the mental pain it causes by me not doing it. If she doesn't understand you need to ask yourself will she eventually get on board, or if you can be happy being with her and not getting limb lengthening done. If she's a real one shell understand. If she's immature like my girl was it'll take a-lot of arguments and headaches for you to finally get her to realize what needs to be done. The scary thing about this too is you need someone positive to do this with. You always hear about the different experiences ppl had with someone supportive versus someone being negative or alone doing this. The fact that you can be open with her about this is a good sign tho in my opinion.

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Quote from: Sadist on October 27, 2021, 11:12:52 AMSince you have got a gf, I wonder why you are still considering LL.

Because most of people do this for themselves, not for other people.
Cosmetic surgeries and tattoos are a personal choice, having or not a GF or BF doesn't matter.

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Quote from: HumanCyborg on October 28, 2021, 09:17:24 PMNever do this.

Why do you say that? (it's an honest question  I am not very experienced)