Hey guys, based on your experience and doc's recommendation, when can you have sex earliest post-op?

Common sense dictates that some positions are definitely no-no. Like when can you have oral sex? Or masturbate?

It would be hard for me (pun intended) not get any for months.

I personally won't have rigorous sex (like missionary, etc) until my bone has consolidated enough.

I'm asking cuz I believe there are lots of anxiety and very few info on sex post-op. And this is a human need.