If GF pissed you did LL, then you do it again, what should you say to her?

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What would you say to her if your goal was to stay with her?

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How would you handle these questions?

1. I liked your old height better, it was perfect for me, why did you change?

2. Why did you keep this a secret from me? (not sure if I should say the truth- 'because I think you would have objected and given me more stress during the process')

3. Why did you risk your health? What if it affected your walking / able to do a job someday?

4. Why aren't you focusing more on applying to X school, this will delay your application by a year? (yes it will and I'm not sure what to say)

5. Do you have any other secrets? (yup, planning on hair transplant. Should I tell her?)

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And don't forget

6. So you like taller girls/want to date someone else? (I want to be with my current GF. But unless I am able to get into a school near where she lives, I don't see how we could stay together. I don't think it is a good idea to say this thought aloud.)

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I have not done LL yet. I plan to do it in September. The title is to help me think through the possibilities.

Based on the responses, it seems like if I did LL and did not tell my GF, she would not like it.

So it seems like I should tell her that I am going to do it. I have not done LL yet, and I want to do internal femur Gnail with Giotikas next fall and then internal tibia maybe like a year later with Parihar. I've budgeted about 150k$ for both.

How would you tell your GF about this? I imagine something she'll be pissed about is me being stingy with money with her even though I had this money saved up. And she'll be annoyed because she likes my current height. Mentally, I'm already ready to get dumped but wonder if I can somehow say something to make this work.

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Thanks for helping me think through this clearly

I will tell her everything after I book the surgery and I will mentally prepare myself to be dumped

I wonder if I should try to get dumped before the surgery happens because I think it would be more difficult emotionally to get dumped during the middle surgery. I vaguely remember reading that certain drugs you take during the recovery cause depression or negative thoughts. On the other hand, there is an off chance she will still be with me anyway.

What do you think? Should I try intentionally to get dumped before the surgery starts?