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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 5:09 am
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  I'm Chinese,who is immersing myself in love with my girlfriend,but her mother didn't agree me on marring her becauses of my height.She said since her daughter was very short so she deserved a very tall guy.I dunno how to handle this.
  The only way to handle this is limblengthening surgery,I think.I think for Guangdongese parents,175cm or so is a right height.I don't mind receiving post-surgery disorders for my girlfriend.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 8:42 am
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Quote from: Iron_Man on November 06, 2020, 06:25:25 AMI think it's strange that her mother decides who she would marry. I'd stay away from a family like that
Actually I'm the same with you,but if i stayed away from that family I wouldn't get her.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 8:46 am
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Quote from: SartBimpson on November 06, 2020, 08:12:10 AMAgree with MDOW.

The surgery won't change your genetics. You'll still get short children.
My mission is not to get a tall children and actually I,the same as my girlfriend,don't totally desire a children if it weren't for her mother.I  just want to play a trick on her mother and therefore even though our children will be not tall she wouldn't blame my genetic.
Her mother isn't knowledgable of anything because she doesn't achieve a standard general education,let alone surgery of this kind.She would convince herself that my genetic didn't work completely and she would adopt our romance.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 10:46 am
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I have told her about my plan for this LL.She agreed and understood me.We are being pushed to the end and have no other alternatives.She also accepted my recovery days.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 10:49 am
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My height is 162 at night and 163 not at night.I dunno my girlfriend's height but she told she was measured 148cm in the physical examination at 16.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 1:55 pm
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Quote from: SartBimpson on November 06, 2020, 12:57:39 PMTrue. If you are already considering LL, then you shouldn't date someone that short to avoid creating problems for your kids in the future in case you get any.
The problem is the two parents asking for children who should be not short,but even LL can't modify gene.
If I dated a tall girl,it's no doubt she wouldn't love me.If I dated a short girl,it will be that parents will refuse our romance.
Only way for this problem is tricks.I dunno other ways.
I hate it that because of my height I have to give her up.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 2:08 pm
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Quote from: InStrydeMyFaith on November 06, 2020, 01:34:57 PMI like how everyone here has an opinion on what OP has to do in his life, and how he should not date a woman whose mother thinks like that yada yada instead of helping the man with the actual thing he asked

OP, 12 cm is possible bro. But it is high risk, you will need to lengthen both segments, it will be very expensive, and it will take a long time to recover (possibly 2+ years and that's in a perfect world), and probably forget any athletic ability

From what I understand to you height is more important than any of this. The answer is yes you can lengthen 12cm.

As for your children ending up short, well, that is not guaranteed to begin with,usually children of short parents tend to be taller than them even if they are still below average, that is the regression effect, and, at the end of the day, if we are going to be so cynical, if your child ends up short, you will be the guinea pig to know if this is safe for your child. That's how I think about myself at least
Thx.Actually I only want to lengthen myself to make her mother satisfied enough.That's all.Maybe I don't have to lengthen 12cm,because actually my academic performance is not bad.
Maybe someone suggests give up that girl.But the problem will become bigger and never stop.
What if my next girlfriend(And yet suppose another girl loved me.Maybe there will never come a girl accepting me)'s parents wouldn't accept me cause of my height?And that's of high possibility.So I reckon giving up is not a good solution.I dont wanna be a monk.
So sooner or later LL is a must.
As for children,since I knew of LL,I had known numerous knowledge about how to grow taller.So it's impossible that my children would grow as short as I am.You got it right.
Right now I thought over my idiotic plan.I would like to lengthen one of segments at first and then one year later(or longer)lengthen the another.
In China,because of Chinese culture,when men or women grow up to a particular age,parents will definitely become anxious about why their children are still not married.So first LL can grow me taller and next it can make her parents anxious cause of long time spent by her daught being single.
Don't laugh at me.I really hate to imagine giving up a loved girl cause of being short.I think everyone short hates to imagine that and daren't do that.
Or anyone else can help give another piece of good advice??

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 2:12 pm
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Quote from: SartBimpson on November 06, 2020, 02:00:34 PMHave you tried elevator shoes? You said your girlfriend's mother is not attentive. Perhaps elevator shoes can give her the illusion that you're tall without risking a 12cm lengthening operation?
When I succeeded becoming her husband,In China(I dunno if it's the same in other countries),husband or wife must live in other parents' homes,it was definitely impossible I walk,sleep,go to the toilet and so on with elevator shoes all the time.It's fun Chinese husband or wife must enter other parents' houses without any kind of shoes.(Otherwise it's very impolite and if every time I enter the house with shoes,her mother will cast me away one day)
What's worse,for my very short height,elevator shoes won't work a lot.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 2:21 pm
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Quote from: Harmonica on November 06, 2020, 11:54:35 AM"Who also needs this surgery for girlfriend's mother like me??"

No one. Because no one else is idiotic enough to think like that.
Actually I also wrote me off as idiotic.But if I weren't idiotic,I must give that girl up because of my height.
Think it twice and think it twice.I chose to be idiotic.

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Posted on Nov 6, 2020, 3:49 pm
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Her mother is 148cm or so(equals my gf's height).I dunno if 8cm femur can satisfy her.
Because of her mother being so short,on her shoes,maybe she would misestimate my height as 175cm(without shoes).Then with shoes my height would raise up to "177cm or so"(with shoes).
Actually I'm a graduate and aiming for JiaoTong University,but I dunno if that I succeeded in that would change her mother's mind.If so,LL wouldn't be a must.

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