Quote from: JON SNOW on October 31, 2018, 07:07:21 AM"His friend is making moves, what are you doing lol" did i strike a chord? you are projecting
but man you must be psychic, I am lazy, and often I do not approach, I invest my time and energy in women who show interest first, is working so far
and yes you are right by dictionary definition Womanizing is someone who has lots of casual sxx
in my opinion can be argue there is usually (not always) a difference in the quality looks of women obtained between a womanizer running numbers game and and a natural womanizer that has the effect of attracting women to the point that they usually make the move, simple supply and demand mechanisms
it's superficial? hell yes it is..... how cares
I have a feeling that those natural womanisers you speak of are ones that did the numbers game, got experienced and became naturally more successful by refining their process. I am sure there are some male models that get women's attention without even looking at them - but these guys tend to be narcissistic to the point that they are actually gay.
Anyway the original point I was trying to make is that failure is not at all bad because it's an expected part of the dating game. I agree the girl was sh1t testing the OP as the sort of things she was saying are standard tests - and by the sounds of it he failed. On dating sites and facebook most of what people write are how they want to be seen and not how they actually are. The best snippets of their life. The sh1t tests are useful to peer into the real person - see how they react when the frame they have created is taken away. Do they fold. How seriously do they take themselves? I think they are fun.