Quote from: dz93 on September 01, 2023, 03:27:19 PMGood to hear you're feeling better. When you get approached when going out, has it so far led to something more, like dates or one night stands, that you'd assume you would not have gotten at your natural height? Sorry if that's a bit of a direct question but we all know this stuff is the reason many consider this whole thing.
And flirting and having some casual fun is one thing but are you worried at all about any potential long-term partners finding out about your old height by let's say seeing old photos, getting to know your friends and family, and getting to know about this procedure, and then getting second thoughts or somehow seeing it as a dealbreaker? You could say if they did they're not the right one for you anyway, but the same kind of goes for someone rejecting a guy for his height. I guess mathematically speaking you're "in the green" as long as the percentage of women who are not fine with a partner doing LL doesn't outnumber the ones who would have rejected a guy for being your natural height before.
Sorry for replying late, but just been busy with life and like many others after getting this surgery you slowly get back into life - you really do forget about you "old" life. It strange, but at the same time very true. I will try to be more active here, writing more posts, sharing more pics and videos.
I still have a tight IT-band on my left leg, but it is getting a little better every day. It's tight, bit nothing that bothers me or hinders me on the daily. It is worse after after driving, but even this has gotten better lately. Since my last post I had a week holiday where I walked 50km in seven days, so walking after my muscles get warm isn't an issue any more. I've stopped doing daily stretching, but I still do physiotherapy three times a week.
I think most men do this surgery because they feel, or are small. Which in return has made dating and meeting women hard. To be honest, this was one of the reasons I did it, but not the main reason. But if I knew how much more attention and respect from women I would get, I would have done this A LOT EARLIER in life. I have gotten more numbers, more snapchats, more IGs, more hookups, more invites and more dates in the past four months - than the past ten years combined. Not kidding, I honestly feel like I've joined the "chad" club after reaching normal height. I've gotten more compliments from women the past four months than my entire life. Compliments like "you're handsome", "you're good looking", "you're hot", "do you do onlyfans?", some of these compliments I've never ever gotten before in my life. I can now accept that I am good looking, after hearing it many times from women the past four months. I don't say this to brag, because before surgery I was actually in better shape and more defined than now, so better looking before. But that didn't mean sh** to most women, because if you are not above the height threshold, you're basically invisible.
To me all of this is still new and very absurd. I am just not, or may ever get used to being able to walk up to any girl, starting a conversation and not once being rejected, most times getting her Snap or number. All of this is such a big contrast to how things where before. Last weekend three women approached me, I would be lucky if that happened in a period of three years at my old height. In the past weeks one girl stored her number in my phone as Wifey and the other one as Bby - not kidding, and these where solid 8-9/10.
So if you are remotely good looking, or just average. I truly believe you will dramatically improve your dating and love life going from short to around average. If you already are around average, I don't believe becoming very tall will dramatically improve you success with women.
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It seems like your life is going pretty well after 10 inches on your femurs. As for your experiences with girls, I'm happy for you man, it's true that being at a "normal" height you get more attention and respect from girls. Even if you're 5'10 and handsome you can tower over a 6'6 guy. Congratulations man, I am happy and at the same time excited to read these types of publications.
Glad to see you are doing good. Can you send a link to the yt interview with Cyborg? I dont find it or at least your name
Quote from: Stand taller on October 10, 2023, 08:19:12 PMI have gotten more numbers, more snapchats, more IGs, more hookups, more invites and more dates in the past four months - than the past ten years combined.
Thanks for the update! Very interesting again. By hookups I assume you mean one night stands? I've always wondered if a girl would notice or comment on leg length when seeing someone having had LL nked especially if lengthened over a certain limit where it would be harder to deny. Post-LL proportions can be normalized with clothing, but at that point it's all in the open. Not saying you necessarily are in that category despite lengthening more than average.
Given all the newfound attention from and involvement with women you're describing I would love if you could shed some light on this part of my previous post:
Are you worried at all about any potential long-term partners finding out about your old height by let's say seeing old photos (on social media for instance), by getting to know your friends and family, and getting to know about you having this procedure, and then getting second thoughts or somehow thinking a new partner having LL surgery as some kind of a dealbreaker? Or are you totally open about your old and new height with your dates?
Quote from: dz93 on October 14, 2023, 07:15:12 PMThanks for the update! Very interesting again. By hookups I assume you mean one night stands? I've always wondered if a girl would notice or comment on leg length when seeing someone having had LL nked especially if lengthened over a certain limit where it would be harder to deny. Post-LL proportions can be normalized with clothing, but at that point it's all in the open. Not saying you necessarily are in that category despite lengthening more than average.
Given all the newfound attention from and involvement with women you're describing I would love if you could shed some light on this part of my previous post:
Are you worried at all about any potential long-term partners finding out about your old height by let's say seeing old photos (on social media for instance), by getting to know your friends and family, and getting to know about you having this procedure, and then getting second thoughts or somehow thinking a new partner having LL surgery as some kind of a dealbreaker? Or are you totally open about your old and new height with your dates?
Yes by hookups i mean one night stands, or just women in general being more keen to hook up. I've been invited home with women I met out where I have said no. One girl I met out we got separated, I then texted here and she replied "went home, wanna come over"? Another girl approached me when out and asked "can I sit here, pointed a my lap and sat down on my lap". She was super keen and had that "f*** me" look on her face. So theese where guaranteed hookups, but where I didn't follow through so didn't end up in one night stands.
As for proportions, people are too busy thinking about them selves to really care about anybody else. Seriously, most people are blind about the "flaws" of others. I have friends and acquaintance who walk funny and have strange proportions, and people have never noticed or ever commented on it. For us who are in this surgery and leg length space, we are super aware of it - but for everybody else, they don't have the slightest clue.
No I am not worried about a potential partner finding out, depending on the person I might or may not tell them. Don't think it will actually matter too a woman after you've established a proper relationship. I mean most women don't actually consciously care about height, most women just aren't attracted to short men sub-consciously. For us men, we can easily rate women on a 1-10 scale, with great accuracy. Women on the other hand put men into three categories, "not attractive", "attractive" and "very attractive" - and height plays a HUGE role here. Hence my experience.
At my old height most women put me in the category "not attractive", explaining my experience with women for 20-25 years. And now, because I am tall enough, most women find me either "attractive" or "very attractive". I've literally had women tell me "I am hot" or "I am very handsome" more times the last four months than the previous 25 years combined. It's crazy, but is also clearly shows how women rate and find me attractive.
Quote from: Stand taller on October 16, 2023, 06:35:41 PMYes by hookups i mean one night stands, or just women in general being more keen to hook up. I've been invited home with women I met out where I have said no. One girl I met out we got separated, I then texted here and she replied "went home, wanna come over"? Another girl approached me when out and asked "can I sit here, pointed a my lap and sat down on my lap". She was super keen and had that "f*** me" look on her face. So theese where guaranteed hookups, but where I didn't follow through so didn't end up in one night stands.
Which country do you live in, if I may ask?
Yes, with respect, what country are you from that women are so slutty?
Quote from: Stand taller on October 16, 2023, 06:35:41 PMAt my old height most women put me in the category "not attractive", explaining my experience with women for 20-25 years. And now, because I am tall enough, most women find me either "attractive" or "very attractive".
Quote from: Stand taller on October 10, 2023, 08:19:12 PMif you are not above the height threshold, you're basically invisible.
Curious, around what male height do you suspect this threshold is, in your part of the world? For instance based on your own recent experience with getting taller, or what you have observed among peers.
Quote from: YOUNGandSTRONG on October 18, 2023, 02:43:53 PMYes, with respect, what country are you from that women are so slutty?
I live in northern Europe, but I don't want to be more specific than that. I wouldn't say women are slutty at all, to the contrary. I have not experienced anything like this in the previous 25 years of my life. Before all of this, I had once been called handsome or hot directly to my face. And maybe I've gotten a handful of you're good looking. The women haven't changed, only my height. But it is super interesting how much those 11,5cm have changed my life.
Quote from: dz93 on October 18, 2023, 05:22:21 PMCurious, around what male height do you suspect this threshold is, in your part of the world? For instance based on your own recent experience with getting taller, or what you have observed among peers.
In my part of the world I think being around 1-2cm +/- the average height puts me into the normal category. I think that also would apply in other countries and parts of the world. But I may be wrong, because I've learnt in the past four months that most women (feels crazy to even write this) now find me attractive. So for me with my looks, getting close to average height has been key. So it is hard for me to speak for the average looking dude.
Quote from: Stand taller on October 18, 2023, 10:23:59 PMI live in northern Europe, but I don't want to be more specific than that. I wouldn't say women are slutty at all, to the contrary. I have not experienced anything like this in the previous 25 years of my life. Before all of this, I had once been called handsome or hot directly to my face. And maybe I've gotten a handful of you're good looking. The women haven't changed, only my height. But it is super interesting how much those 11,5cm have changed my life.
In my part of the world I think being around 1-2cm +/- the average height puts me into the normal category. I think that also would apply in other countries and parts of the world. But I may be wrong, because I've learnt in the past four months that most women (feels crazy to even write this) now find me attractive. So for me with my looks, getting close to average height has been key. So it is hard for me to speak for the average looking dude.
Please don't take all our women. Let's share a few. 
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