Quote from: ilovescience on October 24, 2021, 01:31:40 PMIn Australia, if you were just going out buying stuffs, like going to Kmart, Woolworths, etc, would height be a factor when it comes to staffs at the shops being respectful? Would they treat everyone the same regardless of their heights?
Of course they would that's basic decency
Quote from: Elhemioe on October 24, 2021, 03:02:57 PMOf course they would that's basic decency
I'm also wondering why it occured to her to ask such a question. I think no normal people will for no reasons discriminate you, at least explicitly, just bc of your height, no matter the country, although China is undeniably the most heightism country all over the world.
Quote from: ilovescience on October 24, 2021, 01:31:40 PMIn Australia, if you were just going out buying stuffs, like going to Kmart, Woolworths, etc, would height be a factor when it comes to staffs at the shops being respectful? Would they treat everyone the same regardless of their heights?
I would say yes they'd treat you same from customer service point of view.
In your group of friends there might be some who make height jokes. Just the crap men/women who do it.
My reply I give them is "yea well I have a better than face among many other things than you. Your just a lanky mess".
And then smirk so they know your not triggered. Just having fun jokes like they are. They should know how it feels when same jokes are used over and over.
Now they've alll stopped since I give it back. Be strong. Don't let people step on you. They'd do it as long as u don't say anything. Easy target for them.
Quote from: Antonio111111 on October 24, 2021, 07:47:23 AMLook around in real life. Ud surely see handsome guys who are around 165 cm doing great with girls. My bro is 165 cm and he had girls swooning over him. Always hooked up and had many girls to choose from. Simply cause he has a really good face and bad boy attitude.
At 1.65 even if you have the best face, most women see you as a boy.
And women want men, not boys, at least after 25yo. I agree that face is important, I have a good face too and thats the reason I have success with women even at my 1.69 height before LL, but still having a good height with some muscles and an average face is almost always more preferable for the majority of women than a handsome face with an 1.65 height.
Most women nowadays are at least 1.63 and with heels on (which all of them wear at night) they become easily 10cm taller than that so it is really hard for a man less than 1.70 not to be towered at places like clubs, bars etc.
Even now with about 1.75cm height at night plus 3cm shoes with insoles which put me at a solid 1.78cm, I am only a little taller than most of the women at night places which don't give me any real benefit, nor I would be very noticed if I didn't have some muscles (on winter where I wear shirts and generally clothes more full than t shirts I am gettimg noticed much less) compared.to a 6ft+ guy.
I agree that height is not a solution to everything when it comes to dating but I truly believe that heights like 1.65 for a man are a big deal breaker for dating.
Quote from: Body Builder on October 24, 2021, 10:51:55 PMAt 1.65 even if you have the best face, most women see you as a boy.
And women want men, not boys, at least after 25yo. I agree that face is important, I have a good face too and thats the reason I have success with women even at my 1.69 height before LL, but still having a good height with some muscles and an average face is almost always more preferable for the majority of women than a handsome face with an 1.65 height.
Most women nowadays are at least 1.63 and with heels on (which all of them wear at night) they become easily 10cm taller than that so it is really hard for a man less than 1.70 not to be towered at places like clubs, bars etc.
Even now with about 1.75cm height at night plus 3cm shoes with insoles which put me at a solid 1.78cm, I am only a little taller than most of the women at night places which don't give me any real benefit, nor I would be very noticed if I didn't have some muscles (on winter where I wear shirts and generally clothes more full than t shirts I am gettimg noticed much less) compared.to a 6ft+ guy.
I agree that height is not a solution to everything when it comes to dating but I truly believe that heights like 1.65 for a man are a big deal breaker for dating.
Dude heels can't obtain anyone 10cm height LOL and eventually they can only obtain 5cm or so. But I agree on the rest of what you said. That's true. Men under 170cm are really screwed up in dating just bc of heights and that's undeniable. That's one of reasons why we should set out for LL just like women are contemplating plastic surgeries.
Quote from: Sadist on October 25, 2021, 02:36:43 AMDude heels can't obtain anyone 10cm height LOL and eventually they can only obtain 5cm or so. But I agree on the rest of what you said. That's true. Men under 170cm are really screwed up in dating just bc of heights and that's undeniable. That's one of reasons why we should set out for LL just like women are contemplating plastic surgeries.
You Can absolutely get 10cm out of heels, especially if they're platform heels like thèse Ariana grande wears.
I know when I wear thèse I reach 5'11/ 6' depending on how thick they are
Quote from: Elhemioe on October 25, 2021, 08:34:48 AMYou Can absolutely get 10cm out of heels, especially if they're platform heels like thèse Ariana grande wears.
I know when I wear thèse I reach 5'11/ 6' depending on how thick they are
Not many girls wear platform heels though, a standard 2-3 inch heel seems to be the norm
Quote from: Antonio111111 on October 24, 2021, 08:39:10 PMI would say yes they'd treat you same from customer service point of view.
In your group of friends there might be some who make height jokes. Just the crap men/women who do it.
My reply I give them is "yea well I have a better than face among many other things than you. Your just a lanky mess".
And then smirk so they know your not triggered. Just having fun jokes like they are. They should know how it feels when same jokes are used over and over.
Now they've alll stopped since I give it back. Be strong. Don't let people step on you. They'd do it as long as u don't say anything. Easy target for them.
May I pm you? Sorry but there's something confusing.
Quote from: ilovescience on October 25, 2021, 05:34:20 PMMay I pm you? Sorry but there's something confusing.
Yes PM no problem.
Quote from: Audous on October 25, 2021, 09:06:30 AMNot many girls wear platform heels though, a standard 2-3 inch heel seems to be the norm
Also “3 inch heels” only give roughly 2.5 inches of height due to the position ankle pivoting.
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