Just had a tinder date last night and this only reaffirmed my desire to get LL done.
We had good chemistry over text and she was definitely into my looks since we matched; she even told me "how tf are you single" over text.
Fast forward to date time and we grab lunch and everything is going well-- I'm being very social and charismatic and everything seems to be going fantastic.
Later that night, I message her to say that I had a fun time and was wondering if she'd like to go on another date. I get hit back with something along the lines of "I think we should just be friends." Idk, but my gut tells me that height had to be the deciding factor as all variables were under control / going fantastic beforehand.
I'm not even that short (5'7 lol) and she was probably 2 inches shorter.
This incident just re-affirmed my desire to get rid of this petty burden that even exists. The fact that I can be killing it in other aspects yet have this small thing be such a deciding factor hurts. I'm sure not all girls care about height but just the fact that it can be such a make-or-break factor in some instances is a nuisance in itself.
Apart from girls, the fact that it affects the way some people treat you sucks in itself too. I remember multiple staff glancing over me and treating me like a non-important customer as soon as I arrived and requested to make reservations.
Oh well, chin up and carry on, lol. Thanks for your ears, friends.
How much height gain are you planning for?
Would be more than happy with 2 inches to be honest. That would put me right at average @ 5'9
I'm about 5'7.5 aiming for 5'9.5. I definitely do think height does hold you back a bit at this height, but I'm not sure if it's a deciding factor on whether she likes you or not as long as you're taller than her. Most girls are not that shallow.
If you're just looking to hook up though maybe wear lifts next time and see if it makes a difference. I don't think it really will.
It's not like she didn't want to date you just because of your height. Maybe you only talked about everyday things and didn't touch her at all? And she just wasn't sexually attracted to you. I had similar problems when I first started dating girls. Height is certainly important, but if a girl has already come to you on a date, then most likely height for her is not the main thing
Not sure how old you are, but that will happen both pre and post LL. You win some, you lose some.
Hey bro....i understand ur concern with the height but i think she was among the shallow ones who want the guy to sart with a number 6....coz she was already shorter thn u....and considering u ticked all the other boxes....not everyone is like that so chill....if u wanna do something abt ur height thn first research on it and do it for urself....not for shallow individuals like this.
Hi,
Maybe it was something else that she didn't like about you during your date. If it all went so well, you could ask her politely but directly what that might have been ("as an advice/ feedaback" for your next date).
I think this has nothing to do with height. I am 5'6 and I have plenty of girls in my tinder and ashley madison profile. And I also mentioned the height there as 5'7.
Lol your 5ft7 imagine being 5ft2/3...
If the girl truly liked, loved you she would have been fine with you not being too tall...
It’s not always about the height brother, this generation is pretty messed up nothing is the same and specially woman... you can blame your height for getting rejected but I believe it was something else ...
I mean height still is important but Even if you were taller it might not have worked out still ...
Girls love to make guys feel special and as if their the deal “ how the Fck your single” to make you feel special and then next min they treat you like absolute shxt
It’s just life man no ones the same any more...
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