If the girl cannot love you at your lowest imagine if you end up crippled in an accident or something... true love doesn’t love from the eyes but the heart
Quote from: Gman23 on January 15, 2021, 08:18:21 PMIf the girl cannot love you at your lowest imagine if you end up crippled in an accident or something... true love doesn’t love from the eyes but the heart
accident or something... like CLL?
5'7 is where 50% of women will accept you statistically.
not sure if its worth going through the struggle for 2 inches buddy.
a lot of money and time wasted and HEALTH. you will not be 100% after LL.
You have to quit your job, restart your life. maybe you will die or be crippled, anything can happen. at 5'7 its absurd to do this and take so many risks when there are enough women out there. work on your self esteem. it is ABSURD at 5'7. wear 1 inch shoe lifts and thicker soles, nike air max if you re so insecure about your height.
Especially, you are literally talking about a tinder date. a meat market for easy hookups, you re taking this way too serious lmao
Quote from: Longer on January 15, 2021, 09:47:06 PMaccident or something... like CLL?
Well to be specific anything could happen, could get hit by a car maybe and if your girl cared about you truly she’d still be there even if you end up being 3ft without any legs
@10cmOnTibiaOrGTFO:
I mean, to each his own. I would like to get this done with either Paley/Roz so the chances of something happening terribly wrong are slim, assuming I keep up with my physical therapy and lengthen a safe amount on the femurs (2 inches, maybe 2.5 max if all is going well). It seems like the surgery has advanced so much where it is no longer as barbaric as it once used to be merely a decade ago where you would have people going to India to be bedridden for many months on end with an external fixator cage and legs littered with unsightly keloid scar wounds from the pin sites. Now, I can get it at world class facilities with highly experienced doctors, fully weight bear, and have it done internally, allowing me more mobility and flexibility while having a much speedier recovery time / return to normalcy.
With the new breakthrough of the Stryde nail, I'd realistically only be out for a half a year or so, and even then, I'd be fully weight bearing and could continue my work remotely and some daily activities.
I think making that leap from slightly under average but still short to plain old average (in my country) would be such a huge thing for me. I've been struggling with height for over 6 years now, it didn't just happen because of a tinder date lol.
Highly recommend to just ignore whether others think you should or shouldn't do LL. You know what to do. Tune out the noise.
true, paley is one of the best on this planet but he is expensive as hell.
if you have the money sure, go for it but the difference will barely be noticable.
you re better off investing your money into something else and raising your attractivity level like that.
whats more attractive to women a guy thats average height or a guy thats slightly below average driving a porschee? guess whos getting more pussy
@10cmOnTibiaOrGTFO:
I think we all know the probable answer to that, which is why we are all here on this forum.
Thanks for your input.
I get wht ur saying but instead of avg. Put 6ft and + and in place of below avg. put avg....and ur statement becomes absolutely concrete....there is actually a certain height threshold more or less tht woman prefer.
As a limb lengthening veteran with a similar starting height, I feel like I am well placed to comment here. I had my operation nearly 2 years ago, started at 169cm (5’6.5) ended at ~176cm (5’9.3).
I think first off here, you have absolutely no idea if it was because of your height. If she didn’t say it was you can’t assume that it was, that’s your insecurity latching onto it. Even if it was to do with your height though, it doesn’t matter. She cares about that, ok, but there are many, many girls who don’t.
I got rejected before and I still get rejected now on tinder dates. I sometimes reject people. Everyone gets rejected, because dating and relationships are very nuanced and we all have different physical and personality features we look for which are also influenced by our environments growing up. Granted I feel like overall I get less rejection (although that could be tied to a confidence thing) but I think for me the important part about getting the operation was knowing that even if I get rejected now, I *know* it’s not because I’m short. It’s something else - even if it’s that I’m not tall (because I’m average.) but that’s what the operation mainly did for me and I don’t regret it one bit.
By all means go for the operation if you have the money, time, and willpower, but it’s not you know absolutely essential to have a fulfilling life - and it’s important to go in with the mindset that this doesn’t magically grant you immunity from rejection, some people will always reject you for one reason or another, because not everyone is a perfect match.
Happy to answer any questions you have!
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